VIDEO: Multiple Husbands and Multiple Wives

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  • Rodney Perkins
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    I this something that you practice?

  • Dominique Treu
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Very true

  • Andre Robinson
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Sorry so your saying that only rich men can only practice polygamy? So if a man loves both of his wife's and they all work to provide a better life for them selves in today's world and not in ancient times when women wasn't allowed to work he is a pimp? Sorry you just sound like a women hat just want a man to take care of you just in a polygamist relationship instead of a monogamy relationship

  • Kia Pruitt
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Great video. Love how you explained ancestral treason.

  • Rachel Marie Marshall
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Love sistar!!

  • Moor-ena El
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    YOU HIT IT ON POINT!!!!!! OOOOOHHHH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!! YOU ARE ON POINT ABOUT THESE MEN WITH THE MENTAL ILLNESS!!! THESE MEN ARE OFF THE HOOK YET PROMOTING THIS!!!! EXACTLY!!

  • Moor-ena El
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    MY SISTER THANK YOU FOR THE VIDEO. I APPRECIATE THAT YOU ARE PROVIDING BOTH SIDES OF POLYANDRY AND POLYGAMY. I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE HOW YOU PROVIDE THE KNOWLEDGE OF HOW POLYGAMY IS DONE AND THERE ARE THOSE DUDES OUT THERE ARE RATHER PIMPING THE WOMEN THEY HAVE GOTTEN INVOLVED. FROM WHAT I SEE, MANY OF THESE DUDES IN THE CONSCIOUS COMMUNITY COULD VERY WELL BE PIMPING "THEIR WIVES."

    I AM ABSOLUTELY SICK AND TIRED OF THE PATRIARCHAL CONSCIOUS COMMUNITY AND THEM STEADY PUSHING POLYGAMY YET THEY BASH POLYANDRY. IT BLOWS MY MIND HOW A DUDE HERE ON YOUR PAGE WILL POST AN ABSOLUTE IMBALANCED AND HATEFUL 16 BULLET STATEMENT ABOUT WHY POLYANDRY IS WRONG BUT YET POLYGAMY IS NEEDED AND RIGHT WHEN CLEARLY WHILE READING HIS IGNORANCE, I COULD CLEARLY REPLACED HIS WORDS AGAINST POLYANDRY WITH POLYGAMY AND HAVE THE SAME EXACT ISSUES WITH POLYGAMY. IT MAKES ME EXTREMELY UNNERVED HOW MEN ARE PUSHING FOR THIS AND USING THE SELF RIGHTEOUS AND INCORRECT STATEMENTS BY SAYING POLYGAMY IS NEEDED BECAUSE BLACK MEN ARE AT A DEFICIT WHEN CLEEEEEEEEARLY BLACK MEN ARE NOT AT A DEFICIT WORLDWIDE. WE CAN MARRY PLENTY OF BLACK MEN FROM AROUND THE WORLD IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES. I BELIEVE BY THESE MEN SAYING THAT …THAT IS ANOTHER PIMP MOVE.

  • Moor-ena El
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    EXACTLY SISTER!!! HE IS A PIMP IF HE IS NOT PROVIDING FOR ALL OF THE SO-CALLED WIVES HE HAS!

  • MUHAMMED 007
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Polygamy (a man marrying more than one woman) is allowed to man, but polyandry (a woman marrying more than one man) is not allowed to woman. There are a number of reasons for that. Let us examine:

    1. One general reason is that when a man having affairs with many women, he is considered to be lucky or as an able man, by the society or even by other women because it is very hard for a man to seduce a woman. Whereas, when a woman is having affairs with more than one man, she is called a slut by the society. The reason is that it is very easy to seduce a man by a woman because men are genetically attracted to women and women are having many seductive elements in their bodies. So if a woman having affairs with more than one man, she is considered to misuse her advantages and thus the anger of the society falls upon her and she loses her value. So relation with more partners is actually a shameful thing for a female in the eyes of the people.

    2. If a woman having multiple husbands, the paternity of the child falls under suspicion. DNA test is a recent invention only and it is also a shameful and impractical thing to test every child’s DNA.

    3. If a woman having multiple husbands, every husband may argue that it is his child.

    4. If a woman having multiple husbands, the paternity of the child could be denied by each husband to avoid responsibility.

    5. The status of men in a society varies according to their wealth and abilities. If a woman having multiple husbands, more wealthy and able husbands would discriminate the less wealthy and able husbands and that causes disputes among them. Even the wife may show partiality among them and may show more love towards the more beneficial ones.

    6. If a woman having multiple husbands, each husband may try to handover the responsibility of meeting her expenses to the other. Even if there is an agreement between them, every one of them may not be in a position to share the expense equally sometimes due to some problems and that leads to disputes among them and such husbands may be discriminated.

    7. It is very difficult for a woman to bear the orders of a single husband and if a woman having multiple husbands, she would be in utter difficult situations. When one husband orders a tea, the other may compel her to iron his clothes. Husbands may be angry towards her for being late also.

    8. Even if they decide to live separately, to avoid problems, each husband may demand that the woman should stay in his home, because men are independent and having their own staying facilities. The result is the woman would be tripping around with her luggage and children to each husband.

    9. There is a chance for misusing the girl child of one husband by the rest of the husbands.

    10. As every husband may demand a child for himself, the woman would have time only for child labouring. Just because she has to take care of many men and many children, she will not get any time for her own things and to earn by working outside and not even for any leisure.

    11. The problem of division of wealth of the husbands becomes a big issue. Especially, if there are disputes about the paternity of the children, the problem gets worst. Heritage or legacy comes from fathers and if the father of the child is a suspicious matter, it cannot be determined , to which heritage or legacy, the child belongs.

    12. Due to immense sex with many healthy husbands and due to heavy workloads, and many children labouring, women get exhausted very soon and their health and beauty and peace of mind diminishes soon.

    13. Each husband may demand more attention to his child and there is a chance for them to discriminate the other children . Each husband may also demand more attention for himself and may compel the wife for that.

    14. The more healthy and aggressive husbands may tease and suppress the weak husbands and it leads to problems. Sometimes the stronger husbands may keep the wife as their own property and the weak husbands may be ignored. Sometimes the angry weak husbands may retaliate in any manner and it leads to other serious problems.

    15. If one of the husbands has less sexual ability to satisfy his wife, he will be discriminated by his own wife and the other husbands may humour him. Men may loose sexual powers gradually according to their old age and thus younger husbands get more appreciation from the wife and the older one might be expelled.

    16. The number of men in a society always would be less than the number of women in a society due to more deaths of men due to various reasons like wars, riots, adventurous nature of men, bad habits of men, accidents and so on. So polyandry is not suitable for a society where the number of men is low and the number of unmarried women is already high. Because polyandry concentrates the available men to some few women and the rest of the women would not get husbands. But polygamy, in which a man marries many women, is suitable for every society. There will not be a situation where the number of women is less than the number of men.

    17. Women is like a pond supposed to take bath for a single man. If more men bath in that pond, dirt of many men mingles with it's water and the pond gets dirty and all the men who bath from that pond also get dirty. Could you understand my colloquial meaning?

    So, due to many such reasons, polyandry is not a practical thing. It destroys the value and health and peace of women. It creates only unsatisfied families. It makes the female like a commodity which is used to handle by many males. It creates disputes and arguments among husbands and that leads to fighting and fighting of men mostly ends with murders. It creates dissatisfaction among husbands. Due to the unavailability of his wife and due to the plenty availability of unmarried women around, he tend to fornicate and thus it affects the society. So polyandry is against the society, where polygamy helps the society to comfort the females who are unmarried due to various misfortunes and to prevent fornication. Only condition is that the present wife of a man should show some broad mind so that one of her sisters may get a good life.

  • Michaela Harris
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Peace and love to you as well sister! Thank you! That was very informative.

  • Treg007
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    :-)

  • Sylvia Danthon
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    Yes and thank you

  • Health b4 Wealth
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    This is a great video of info. Appreciate the knowledge,wisdom that brought forth understanding. Peace Queen.

  • J-N-H-M
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    LoL so she saying Brady williams ( my five wives )  and cody brown ( sister wives )  are Pimps !!  because these wives work ?
    LOL , women wanna be equal's , then they wanna be taken care of  LOL !  get in that Kitchen !!! … lol jk sorry

  • David Wayne
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    wow another point of view I never thought about how western society thinks.

  • Nyah Nyah
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    LOL…. I LIKE THE PART ABOUT THE 'MENTAL ILLNESS'  I DO NOT SUPPORT MULTIPLE WIVES OR HUSBAND, BUT SOME OF THESE BROTHERS NEED TO HEAR IT!!!!

  • oldschoolsituationz
    30 November 2015 at 10:43 pm
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    wow! i guess all of nature suffers from a mental illness, because your slant on the matter simply isn't true. answer this question if you please, if what you say is true then why does the word husband mean owner? why did and do africans remove a woman's clitoris and sew up her vagina? this practice dating back to the time of the pharaohs. i agree with most of what you said from a afro-western stand point, but from a factual historical one it contradicts reality. in some of these cultures a daughter remains the property of her father forever while her children are the property of their father. i can believe that in west africa some women did establish poligamy for their sons, (simply based on the queen mother tradition) but it was hardly out of alturism. the associated customs across the continent contradict that supposition. even the treatment of the wives aren't always noble and smack of clicks within certain families. (she's a good girl because she's from a good family) marriage, where ever it is found is a political and economic institution. where ever it is found in the old world contracts and financial exchanges was determinative in setting up the institution like the merger of a corporation.  wealthy men hardly would marry a poor woman to simply to enrich her financially,  where they do that at?  in traditional societies the bride and groom are coincidental to the merger between two families.  a poor farmer with two wives would have them both in the fields with himself tilling the land more so than financing a shopping spree in the market place.  there is no shortage of african men with wealth in the past or today who would gladly have his way with an attractive poor woman or servant girl to enliven his loins., this isn't white folks bullshit, this is human reality.  yes these things were done within a context but within a very real human social political context.  that is the reason why the institution of polygamy is SUPPRESSED in america as it has social and political implications which conflicts with american styled fiefdom..  i will not work within a romeo juliet context. that i am sure of.

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